Hi there. There is a character I really relate to and connected to pretty much instantly. I know I have a strong connection to him, and a strong understanding of him, but I’m not sure if he is a kin of mine. I don’t have memories though and I feel like thats a big indicator of being fictionkin. How do I know if I’m kin to him or if I just relate to him strongly?
First of all, you’ll need to take your time. Even with an instant reaction, it can take weeks, months, or even years to truly understand the connection between yourself and a character like that.
Examine your feelings and memories, do meditation. Talk to other people who are kin. Also look into things like synpath, and fiction heartedness, and soulbonding.
This link is also a good reference for figuring out if you may be kin or not/
