Hey uh, this is the factkin anon. I usually handle missing someone by bringing them here as a soulbond, as I also have fictotypes. But uh… I’m in my factotype shift and I wouldn’t be at all comfortable having the person I miss in my system. But I miss him so bad it physically hurts, and I don’t know what to do about it. Inducing other shifts is difficult for me and I don’t trust my system members not to blab about why I’m upset if I have one front. They’re good people, I’m just a bit paranoid.
That sounds like a really complicated situation, anon. I’m not sure what advice to give you here. Missing people is really, really hard. But its tough if bringing someone into your system is going to destabilize you mentally. Do you have any friends who also soulbond? Maybe one of them would be willing to pull this person into their group for you? My fiancee and I are synced up bondwise, and we often bring people through for one another.