Hey there, anon. Your boyfriend sounds like he’s putting his friends behavior ahead of your comfort, which isn’t cool. If these kids “are cunts to everyone…
Kind of funny how I get two ‘dating/life advice’ type asks in a row! For future refrence even though its not really the ‘point’ of this blog,…
Find a girlfriend who doesn’t abuse you by shutting you down when you talk about your interests. Seriouisly, kin stuff or not, a significant other…
Hi there, anon! 🙂 I’m sorry you’ve been having social trouble like this. Highschool is hard, because people are forced to socialize with one another…
(Part 2) it was only to the level everyone gets, but after reading your posts I’m starting to see that might not be it. I…
Its easy for me to forget how young people can be on this site. When I see 14 and 15 year olds around, its a…
Its tough to get into the fictionkin community without a thick skin, because sadly, it does open one up to ridicule a bit. I do…
Missing people your kinself knew is always difficult. I know that I get sad sometimes, when I think of those people who were close to…
There are two possibilities here. One is that you are kin with someone from that ‘canon’ who was never shown on screen. Basically a ‘background character’ or ‘extra’…
–observer. I’m not sure how to catalogue this, and was just wondering what your take on it is. She’s a ‘villain’ who is largely hated…
Well, first of all, I’d like to say that you should talk to your friends, and ask them what being fictionkin means to them. It…
You absolutely can. There is no need to make yourself uncomfortable in this matter. You’re clearly a good friend, and you’ve made an effort to…
That sounds like fictionkin to me. Congratulations on the beginning of yoru awakening. It will be a long journey, but one that will lead to…
My advice, as it always is to this question, is that there is no need to share your identity as fictionkin with anyone who is…
That does sound like polykin to me. I would do a lot of thought and meditation on the matter, but it is *possible* that you…
From the outside, that certainly sounds like fictionkin. It could be something else though, like fiction-hearted, or soulbonding. I’d recommend telling your friend that you…
Absolutely. Most people don’t match up with their ‘canon’ 100%.
I’ve struggled with similar feelings. Honestly, I think the fact that you feel like you’re not ‘worthy’ is a good indication that it may be a…
Only you can really answer that question for yourself. Having the same experiences in this life as a character does in a fiction can make…
Sometimes the lines between attraction and self image blur. Maybe you’re attracted to them because you feel that you’re like them? Maybe you feel that…
It is absolutely normal, and understandable to miss people that you were close to in that life. Sadly, for some of us, the truth is…
My advice is to just take it slow and not rush into any beliefs. Take some time to explore your feelings and memories through deep…
I can’t tell them not to be uncomfortable about it, but they can’t DO anything about it either. Fictionkin are fictionkin. Complaining about someone’s identity…
(Anon who doesn’t get the IT’S ME feeling) I also may possibly have memories of being this character? Difficult to say whether that’s just overactive…
(2/2) I wanted to protect the others and give them a warning, and that I was so smart and chose to take my own way…
( cont.) In my last life I was lonely in the beginning and then I met them and things got better. In this life…I don’t…
Hello, anon. I certainly understand how you feel as that describes my own ‘kintype’ to a T. Fortunately, or unfortunately, I haven’t had the luck…
The journey to accepting yourself as fictionkin, is, like any other journey of acceptance, long, and hard. I would say, longer and harder than many…
If you’re feeling like you’re too obsessed and wound up with something- especially something as powerful as your fictionkin identity- sometimes the best idea is…
Then when people ask, tell them that you are no longer sexist. Just as you can learn and grow and improve your ideals from year…
Its hard. Its hard to believe that you’re fictionkin, and to come to terms with that. Its so much easier to just believe that you’re…
The only way to know if you are fictionkin or not is to know yourself. There is sadly no blood test, no list of traits…
My advice to fictionkin, and otherkin in general is not to go around telling people about your identity ESPECIALLY before you are sure of yourself.…
How do I know if I’m fictionkin? Is it okay if I’m fictionkin and believe X? I identify with X but I know its wrong!…
I don’t know if this is a question I am really qualified to answer. If your brain really does manufacturer memories then I don’t know…
Its normal. Kids, don’t tell your parents about being fictionkin, unless you’re really sure they’ll think its something neat. Most parents will either be dismissive…
Its hard. Its really hard. I have self image problems rooted in my kin nature as well, which for me comes out as a sort…
Definitely meditation and self reflection. There comes a limit to what outside material can tell you about yourself. Its possible you aren’t even one of…
Absolutely. You’re on the right track here. Of course the people we are now differ from the personalities we’ve had before, because our experiences and…