Hey this might sound odd but can you have a soulbond that’s separate from your actual system? I’m a system and I’m trying to gain/pull at a soulbond but I was curious if they become a system member.

I don’t really have a firm answer for you, but I can talk about my personal experience. In my personal experience, I have had headmates…

Also I played the game The Evil Within at my partner’s house and I immediately got kinfeels for Joseph Oda but I’m not sure whether they’re sincere or that they only occurred bc my partner is Sebastian Castellanos and I’m scared tbh..

That’s definitely something that bears a lot of scrutiny. Try to think about the idea outside of your relationship with your partner. Here’s a list…

Kin feelings can be triggered by weird stuff, even cosplay and fanfiction, Its not that unusual!

Interesting question! I guess it would depend on how my kinself identified and if it was meaningful to me now? For instance if Lapis was…

Ouch, that sounds like its very confusing, and I’m sorry that you feel so negatively about your situation. I can’t tell you how ‘valid’ or not…