I feel the same way, anon. Cheers to all my ‘weird’ kin friends.
That’s not something I can define for you. I suggest @realmultipleadvice
do you understand that people would feel uncomfortable with doubles because of mental illness even when they accept the multiverse theory? I’ve said before, I…
These feelings are really understandable. Sometimes its better not to focus on labels, and focus more on how you feel. Whether your experiences are ‘real’ or…
It all depends on what you’re trying to achieve. A lot of people go looking for memories, validation of their identity, etc. I can’t really…
Remind yourself that you don’t always need to question yourself. Affirm that your identity is meaningful to you and that’s whats important remind yourself that…
Obsessing over whether or not you are legitimate to the point of emotional turmoil. Constant need for validation. Constant fear of not being good enough.…
Fictionkin discover who they are through experiences like homesickness, species/image dysphoria, supernumerary phantom limbs, residual scarring/pain, kin memories, missing abilities, unexplained fears or urges, etc.…
It depends on what you believe. If we’re talking psychological kin, then the odds are sort of fudged because it all depends on how well…
Psychological fictionkin are completely legitimate, and I definitely understand that its hard to believe in concepts like souls and alternate dimensions that aren’t proven. I…
Ken: When I was young, right after my brother died, my parents were briefly convinced to attend a christian church. (yes, they have some of…
No, I’m sorry, that’s not something I have any idea about.
Its pretty common, yes. A mental shift will make your mind/persona change back more in align with your kinself. Keep in mind if a ‘shift’ causes…
Its totally possible for it to happen much slower. In fact this is often the case. Sometimes everything comes all at once, but not at…
Sure! What you do is you go to Google custom search and sign up. Put in the URL of the site you’d like to search (yourtumblr.tumblr.com)…
Copinglinks can’t “become” kintypes, but what CAN happen is you can realize what you thought was a copinglink was a kintype all along.
The same way I deal with painful memories, anon. Acknowledge that it happened, and try to move on. Maybe nothing compares to the feeling of…
Yeah, that sounds like the sort of thing that could shut off memories for a while. I think you’re probably mentally protecting yourself, and you’ll…
I don’t experience cameo shifts, so I can’t tell you from personal experience. Maybe someone who has cameo shifts can chime in here?
‘Coded black’ characters are super important for representation of diversity in media. Its important to hire actors from all races and backgrounds, and its super…
www.incanon.org/forum/index.php is your best bet 🙂
Being able to step away from earth-reality and relax in the digital world.
A4 (link) A5 (link) A7 Do you feel ashamed of being fictionkin? Proud? Neutral? Depends on the day, and the context. I try not to…
Depends on the person using it. There isn’t a standardized usage. Some copinglinkers use it. Some people who use it just mean they feel like…
Depending on what you believe, there may be an *actual* barrier between you and these deeper memories, put there for any number of reasons. Is…
A synpath is something/someone that you identify with/have empathy with/for. (link) (link) otherhearted/fictionhearted is having a strong emotional/spiritual connection with someone/something without actually *being* them.…
Its a tricky question, anon, and there’s definitely some grey space and room for questioning. Generally the way I tell a memory is if it…
As of right now, I don’t, anon. But I get this question often enough I am working on putting together a guide and links to…
Great advice, anon ^^
Sometimes realizations come slowly. And you certainly don’t HAVE to mediate to know you are kin- that’s just something I advise when someone is trying…
do you think its possible for your soulbond to have such an impact on your personality that you mistake it for being kin with it?…
Ehhhhh…. it depends on what you mean by ‘not have an attachment’. Do you mean you’re not attached to the ‘canon’ of this world but rather feel…
Thank you for chiming in. I think you’re absolutely right that the dispute started there. I am saddened that there is such a situation going…
Yeah, that is the problem there is no consensus. If there were an agreement, I would simply go along with it. Obviously I don’t want…
Every person is an individual and has their own reasons for doing that. I can’t tell you the reason everyone has. That said, I think…
Judging by the fact that any time I use the term ‘system’ to refer to non-DID multiples, I have DID sufferers jumping down my throat…
Interesting. My information on alters having to be formed from childhood comes from @this-is-not-dissociative and other such blogs. I am unable to retrieve the exact…
Kin feelings can come and go. Sometimes our kintype is the most important thing on our minds, but sometimes it is overshadowed by thoughts and…