old tumblr postsAugust 10, 2015

Okay, this is going to sound like a troll question, but… do you think it’s possible for a kin to, say, soulbond with themselves from another reality? Like, if you’re Ken, could you soulbond with Ken from a slightly different timeline? Have you ever heard of this happening?

I have never personally heard of this happening, however, there is no reason it could not. It sounds like a very weird experience! Anyone who…

old tumblr postsJuly 30, 2015

About Your Humble Blogger

Lately, a lot of people I’ve talked to have been surprised that I am not a singlet. Frankly, I don’t mention my system a lot,…

old tumblr postsJuly 27, 2015

Do you think it’s possible that some soulbonds can only talk to you in your dreams? A character visits me frequently while I’m asleep and our interactions are deeply personal (not sexual… yet) & I feel such a connection with them but I can’t seem to get them to talk to me while I’m awake. Do you think it could eventually happen or, if it doesn’t, is it wrong to label this a soulbond? And by frequently I mean at least once per night, every night… Thank you if you answer, fantastic blog! :)

Soulbonds express themselves in a variety of ways. I’ve had, and heard of people having bonds that never speak, but only make themselves known through…

old tumblr postsJuly 25, 2015

Do you think it’s a bad idea to have ended up soulbonding with a character who you are deeply in love with and also sexually attracted to? It’s not unpleasant, it’s just that I feel almost like I’m overstepping some kind of line. Should I run with it, or attempt to back out?

I personally don’t think this is bad, though other people will have other opinions from me. Intense feelings are often what create a bond, and…

old tumblr postsJuly 25, 2015

Do you think soulbonds are “real” if they don’t accurately reflect all traits of their personality or memories etc from their canon? (Note: “real” isn’t the word I want to use (it’s kinda rude) but I can’t come up with a better word for this question. I’m not trying to be rude, slap me if I am.)

I don’t think this is a rude question. 🙂 The answer is yes. I consider all soulbonds ‘real’ for lack of a better word, regardless of…

old tumblr postsJuly 24, 2015

Can you explain the difference between a soulbond and a headmate? I’m really not understanding and I need to because of my situation.

The short answer is a soulbond is a type, or subset of, headmate. A headmate is any fully realized independent person/entity that shares mental space…

old tumblr postsJuly 20, 2015

I’m sending this on anon, since my mainblog is very separate from my kin stuff- I just wanted to thank you for posting about soulbonding. I’ve had bonds for a while now, and they are /very/ close to me, but they weren’t kin, nor were they headmates, and facets didn’t feel like the right word either, so I ended up calling them brainmates. Everything you’ve described with soulbonds though, has hit my experience right on the nose. So, thank you, from the bottom of my, and my bonds, hearts

I’m so glad you found a term that rings true to your experience! Soulbonding is really a fascinating experience and a deep part of my…

old tumblr postsJuly 17, 2015

Email exchange

I recieved an email earlier today, and the sender said that they were alright with me sharing it, and my response, on my blog i…

old tumblr postsJune 24, 2015

I have a question that I’m too embarrassed to ask off-anon, sorry. I am pretty sure I’m not fictionkin, but yet sometimes I will feel like literally a character is rising up from inside my brain to act for me or to guide me, etc. Pre-existing characters, not OCs. Even when they aren’t actively acting for me, they are still sometimes there and even talk to me and others who are there. I’m not sure what this could be and since I’ve known about otherkin for 10+ years my only thought [1/2]

[2/2] was that it had to be related to fictionkin. And yet as I dwell on it and the more I think the more I…

old tumblr postsMay 9, 2015

can being kin be used as a kind of support for anxiety/stress/depression? Sorry if this is rude in any way, I’m really new to this ;;

You can use a character’s strength as a way to support you mentally, but this is not what being fictionkin is. I would call this…

old tumblr postsApril 6, 2015

what does “soul bonded” mean?

Soul bonded at its core means you’re mentally connected with someone- usually a fictional character. You hear their voice in your head during the day,…

old tumblr postsNovember 20, 2014

Do you think it’s possible to become a soulbonder or multiple if you’ve never experienced the phenomenon before? What advice would you give for someone looking to become a soulbonder?

Soulbonder is a term I haven’t heard much since the livejournal days, and I think its a shame that most people seem to have stopped…