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(1/2) Hey there! I’m questioning if I’m kin (specifically w/ Bee from Bee and Puppycat and Amethyst from Steven Universe). However, I don’t have any memories from their canons. For Bee, whenever I watch the show I get this very slight sense of deja vu, like what I’m watching is from a dream I had that I’ve almost completely forgotten.

2/2) For Amethyst, it’s not the same case. There are times where I feel I literally am her, but that doesn’t happen often or for…

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Hi, I sent an anon ask a few days ago about a soul bond, but I think tumblr ate it. I used to think I was kin with a character, until I accidentally made contact with him. I could see him, and perceive what he was thinking. He turned around and looked right where I “was”. Since then, I was thinking maybe this is the beginning of a soul bond? I can sense his emotions sometimes, and I’ve talked to him sparingly a couple times. I asked him if I was making it up, and he told me that since the (1/2)

(2/2) bond was tenuous that my mind was filling in gaps of what he was saying, but at least part of what I was hearing…

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Hello! I am very new to the otherkin/fictionkin community. I’m still not fully sure as to what it all means, who my ‘kins’ are – if I even have any at all. This blog has been a massive help, and I thank you for it! But what I want to know is if you have to identify as the same gender as your kin? For example, I am a cis female but one of the characters I think I might(!) identify with is male. Help?

Gender is essentially meaningless when it comes to fictionkin/otherkin. The person you’re kin to may be the same sex as your body, or a different…

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I’m sure this is a really basic, fundamental question but I would appreciate your help in understanding. What happens when more than one person thinks that they are kin with a singular fictional character? Doesn’t this cause fights? Especially if they have different ideas about that character and their experiences?

I get asked this question a lot, its true, but I think that means its an important question. When more than one person believes they…

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Alright, memory ramble. As I said, they’re pretty sparse, but from my life as Eridan, I do remember the following: I liked to paint every once in a while, although not much, I had a secret shark plushie named Mr. Bitey, I felt better about talking about certain things when I was acting overdramatic and I never REALLY loved Fef. I only thought I did. I could easily elaborate, but I don’t think there’s enough space in an ask for that. I’m already almost out of space as it is.

secret shark plushie sounds adorable. 

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Hey, so I’m the same anon as from the last ask you answered. Would you mind if I rambled a little bit about the small memories I have of my life as Eridan in your askbox? I haven’t had a chance to make a blog that I feel comfortable posting fickin stuff on and you’re the only person that I’ve been able to talk to so far that is fickin simply because of how nervous I get with people. I have terrible memory and think that maybe getting what I DO remember out to someone might help me remember more.

Please be my guest 🙂 I’m always happy to listen to memories and questions that get sent to me.

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So, I’m rather new to fictionkin. Your blog is the only reason I get it to be honest. I messaged you before with this question, but sometimes Tumblr eats my messages so I apologize if this is already in your inbox. Is it possible/normal for someone to be kin with multiple versions of one character? For example, I’m pretty sure I’m Eridan, but I’m pretty sure it’s both a close to cannon version as well as a human version.

Thanks for your message. I’m glad that my blog has been able to help you.  While I would normally say it was very unusual (though…

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Is it possible to have a soulbond that functions as a tulpa-like being? Usually I hear about soulbonds existing only as headmates, but I interact with mine in the same way that people interact with thoughtforms and tulpas; they’re external (entirely outside of my mind), they cannot ‘front’ or take over for me, and I can feel their presence as a semi-physical sensation.

While most of the soulbonders I’ve known have experienced their bonds functionally as headmates, I have also read posts of some people experiencing them as…

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I’ve thought about the multiverse a lot, and I’m not a troll even if this might sound trollish, but if literally every single thing that could exist exists in some universe, and if there are universes that can effect other universes (there are canons like that) then shouldn’t there be somewhere a universe that somehow deleted/destroyed/whatever every other universe?

The answer is…. sort of. Because the universe is infinite its impossible to destroy *ALL* all of it. However when you look deeper, its stranger…

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This occurred to me recently because I was doing research on reincarnation. In certain countries where it is a widespread belief, the common idea is that if one is transgender, their soul did not properly sever from their past life. So could this simultaneously solve the mystery as to why so many fictionkin are transgender, as well as why so many other/fictionkin are bigender, genderqueer, agender ect?

I absolutely believe that this is a big part of the reason there are so many kin on the trans spectrum. My body very much…

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I wondered if you had any thoughts on this: the idea that fictionkin (especially reincarnations) are impossible because the character was originally written from the mind of another person, who may not have believed the character was “real”. I don’t know how to explain it better than saying, “it just is real to me”.

Something I talk about a lot is a concept called Multiverse Theory, and I don’t know if it’s as well understood as I’d like it…

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Hi there. So, you’re sort of the closest thing to an authority on soulbonding that I know of, and I have a question. Is it possible for someone to “accidentally” become a soulbonder? As in they didn’t actively seek anyone out, the connection just sort of randomly happened on its own? Because a lot about it seems like the best term for my situation, but I see a lot about actively creating the bonds, and I worry that that’s a sign that this is really something else?

Hello! I’d like to assure you that its absolutely possible, and in some ways ‘normal’ for soulbonds to just happen. A lot (possibly most) soulbonders don’t…

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id like to say that i feel like if someone is first starting to understand otherkin/fictionkin and is still trying to discover themselves, thinking/considering a new kin every week or so might not be a ‘fake’ thing! they could be confused. but then again youre right if its happening consistently.

Absolutely. There is a huge difference between considering that one may be kin, and simply deciding on the spot that you definitely are, and adding…

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Hello! I really hope this is okay to ask this here… I have no one else to go to and I’ve been having a really hard time with trying to deny and suppress these kin feels I have been getting, Because from what I have heard a lot of people say it is very wrong, and impossible to be kin with a character who is physically disabled if you irl are able bodied. Could I get some of your thoughts on this? At least just go easy on me if you feel the same as others I have seen ;;; thank you!

I am so sorry that you are being harassed this way. It is absolutely possible for you, or anyone else, disabled or able bodied, to…

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