old tumblr postsSeptember 24, 2016

(copinglink anon) thank you!!! that seems to fit p well but is it possible to have a copinglink thats like. not voluntary? its a lil confusing but as far as i can tell what happened was it was just kind of a thing? like i never really decided it or w/ei just immediately thought that I Was Them but since i was so isolated i talked to them in my head like they were my friend but it was sorta like i was talking to myself? like i was me but i was also them at the same time it was all rly complicated

It can totally happen, anon. The mind does weird things, especially in order to protect itself. Its certainly possible that you built a copinglink identity…

old tumblr postsJune 22, 2016

hi! im the host of a (soulbond?) system and i think one of my systemmates… left? idk but theyre gone. and i really miss them so i. got an idea to make a tulpa of them. but i dont know if i should. would that be bad? i dont expect them to be just like my last systemmate. ..i just want them back.

Before you make a tulpa of them, I would try to open the channel up and get them back as a soulbond. 🙂

old tumblr postsMay 25, 2016

I have started a new blog that some of my followers may be interested in. @kitbashoccult Kitbash Occult is a new blog for me to…

old tumblr postsFebruary 20, 2016

I am in a predicament and need an opinion. so i’m a soulbonder and recently tried tulpamancing and I made a tulpa. Fast-foreward some and I’m trying to call out to a soulbond of mine. The soulbond and tulpa are both there and then they? fuse? or something. I’m not sure. anyways, so they become one person and the tulpa/soulbond is in a situation where they act in a way that feels like simultaneous reincarnation, being both living the life of the soulbond in their world and being in my 1/2

2/2 headspace at the same time. It’s really weird and I want to make sure this isn’t something that just happens or that has a…

old tumblr postsFebruary 12, 2016

Kin-adjacent Experiences

One interesting thing about being kin is a lot of us have experiences that are vaguely related to being kin, but decidedly outside of the…

old tumblr postsJanuary 12, 2016

Im p sure ive soulbonded w someone, and later on came across tulpa stuff. Im rlly embarrassed to say soulbond around other ppl tho, would it be ok to call a bond an “accedental tulpa”? Or something else maybe? Srry if this sounds dumb.

Most tulpamancers Ive known are cool with the term soulbond. However, if you feel self conscious, you can use whatever term you like!

old tumblr postsJanuary 11, 2016

natural multiplicity terms

Lately several DID sufferers have expressed the view that natural multiples using the term ’system’ to describe themselves is in some way appropriative or dismissive…

old tumblr postsSeptember 10, 2015

Just a little bit of a correction, tulpas only sometimes fall into the category of headmates. It really depends on the tulpa. A lot of tulpamancers project their tulpas into imaginary friend like things that they can visualize following them and such. Also, quite a lot of tulpas are unable to actually switch (switch places with the host). Some can do what is called possession which is sort of an in between where the tulpa moves one part of the body such as the hands. (1/2)

But for the most part, from my own experiences along with what I have gathered from others, the majority of tulpas seem to exist in…

old tumblr postsSeptember 9, 2015

hi, i was pointed here when i asked what a soulbond/tulpa are ??

Hi there! Soulbonds and tulpas are two different kinds headmates. Heamates are people who exist in a body/mindspace with other headmates. Generally people who have/are…

old tumblr postsAugust 15, 2015

is it possible to have both tulpas and soulbonds at the same time? so having multiple people but some being fictional characters and some not?

It absolutely is possible. Having a headmate of one type never excludes having a headmate of another type as well.

old tumblr postsAugust 15, 2015

Not sure if you got this question yet, but have you heard of the fictional other coping mechanism? I kno peeps who were “copingkin” and after reading your posts on the subject, realized that the concept of a fictional other was a better coping mech. It’s basically like..I guess an internal RP? A fictional character you take on as a “significant other”. You KNOW it isn’t real, but when you’re lonely or depressed you kind of dwell on that idealized relationship? Hard to describe. Helped me a lot.

Anon, I have a few thoughts on this subject, so I hope you’ll pardon me if I ramble a bit. My first reaction is that…

old tumblr postsMay 9, 2015

in my cannon, I had a pet follow me around, is it ok to make a tulpa of him/her?

This depends entirely on your feelings. First of all, knowing your pet, how do you think it would have felt, knowing you made a tulpa…

old tumblr postsFebruary 22, 2015

Do you know of any terms to describe someone that works with fictional characters in a similar vein as one works with spirit animals (or totems)? Or would this essentially fall under the soulbonding umbrella?

I think that this would fall broadly under soulbonding- though possibly more on the ‘tulpa’ side of things. I’ve known chaos magicians who worked with…

old tumblr postsNovember 20, 2014

Do you think it’s possible to become a soulbonder or multiple if you’ve never experienced the phenomenon before? What advice would you give for someone looking to become a soulbonder?

Soulbonder is a term I haven’t heard much since the livejournal days, and I think its a shame that most people seem to have stopped…

old tumblr postsNovember 12, 2014

How do you feel about the Tulpa community/phenomenon? I’m otherkin (not fictionkin) and recently became a tulpamancer as well. I think it’s all pretty cool. Some people in the Tulpa community have compared the Tulpa phenomenon to soulbonding — some ‘mancers even have tulpae of fictional characters. I’m curious about what soulbonders think of the comparison or the tulpa phenomenon in general.

I am actually quite familiar with the tulpa phenomenon, and have casually acquainted myself with the community. I’m not surprised that some compare tulpa and…