Hey, I am host to a walk-in fictive and soulbond, and I have wondered lately how often the host should talk with their bonds? They tend to come and go whenever they want, but I started wondering if I’m supposed to talk to them regularly? I love them both but I tend to like being alone, and I don’t want to ignore them or anything.

There’s absolutely no ‘rule’ for this, its entirely up to what you and your bonds feel comfortable with. As long as you and they are comfortable only chatting occasionally, there’s nothing wrong with it. Some people are more introverted than others, even when it comes to people they share headspace with.

There are definitely bonds that I have and have had that I talk with more than others. Some are just quiet, or sometimes I will just need a break!