This is a stupid question probably, though I’m kind of new. With soulbonding, is it possible to accidentally become a soulbonder? I had this one RP character and every now and then I’d just start acting like her, and then I’d stop and not remember it. And there’s a drastic change in personality. I figured out kinda how to push it in the direction of happening, though it didn’t always work. And I left a note taped to my arm asking what was going on, and (1/3)

I got an answer scribbled in a different style of writing saying something about airships and crossing realms. And every now and then I feel like I’m dissociating, and then my memory goes blank, and when I wake up again, I remember bits and pieces from this RP character’s world. And I thought it was a kintype of some sort, not in reincarnation but just crossing over between worlds and almost quite literally swapping bodies, but then I found out from your site about soulbonding, (2/3)

and it sounds like that’s what happened. So uhm, does that sound like that’s it? We can’t talk to each other but we can leave notes, and that’s about it. It might be the wrong thing, but if it is, do you know what this might be? (3/3)

Its absolutely possible to become a soulbonder by accident- that’s actually how most soulbonding situations start.

However, with the additional experiences you’re having I’d look here: 

http://fromfiction.tumblr.com/post/139154281707/kin-adjacent-experiences 

and also given that you’re dissociating you might want to look into whether or not you’re a multiple.