is it possible for sexualities to sort of like, for lack of better terminology, “come with you”? i guess? like, the character i’m fictionkin with is bi, and i’ve always accepted it. no big “realization” happened or anything, it’s always just been a part of me, just been there. ever since i was little i’ve kinda just ‘known’ that i’m bi. is that normal? can that actually happen?