ok this is totally sloppy but: im a troll and i have 5 others [immediately here] with me in my world [there are others but these 5 live with me] and weve tried befriending many humans only for it to never work [they never truly understand or just never understand the full picture and it goes south from there] and im wondering if there are any communities i could look into to find some outside friends for them and for myself as well? i love them and i know its bothering them at this point…

I think the best solution is to let them have individual blogs/emails/etc online, and make friends of their own that way. I wish I had…

so, i’ve noticed a trend among a lot of kin, from fictives to otherkin… and that’s what they call ‘linking’. It’s basically where the one ‘fronting’ ‘links’ to other headspaces using roleplay-like dialogue and they can apparently interact this way in ‘real time’ as if they were real. is this, even a thing? can this even be real? or is it just roleplay? lol

Some people do claim to be able to communicate with members of other people’s headspaces either at a distance, or by the members ‘visiting’ the headspace…

About the sans Fictive: It is, and it’s not even my Fictive. But I’m pretty sure this Sans doesn’t have a home now. He didn’t actually belong in that AU to start with, but it was his home, and the love of his life was there… How can someone think that’s ok to do though?

Unless the AU was created/destroyed by a soulbonder/tulpamancer/someone else deliberately using that AU to call/create fictives from it, then they don’t have any moral obligation…

So lately a realized something weird – and by lately I mean since December or so. I often feel ‘disconnected’ with my body and the first thing that comes into my mind is Chara. I kinda feel like at that exact moment I’m them – I can feel what they do, have their memories, ‘feel’ their relationships with others. And it’s not only at these moments – I always feel these things, but not as strong as then. I’m not sure if I’m kin with them, but if I am… I’m kinda scared of that. (cont.)

(Chara kin cont.) I’m not scared of being kin – not at all – it’s the character. The whole Undertale fandom sees Chara as the…

I don’t know how to identify my system. While on one hand I am not diagnosed with DID and OSDD, I can’t deny the existence of my bonds. I labeled myself as a bond system in order to stress that I was not DID, and I was attacked for it and told I wasn’t allowed to use the word system because I wasn’t DID, even though my bonds came about as a result of years of emotional and verbal ab*se. I don’t know what to do, and it seems I am caught between deny the existence of my bonds and throwing a fit…

Just ignore the people who try to deny you exist and that your experiences are real. A wise anon once told me this: Don’t fall…

Do you think it’s possible for a fictive consciousness in one system to jump to another system? And still have the ability to jump back? I’m a gateway system and I have a friend who is too. We have a few consciousnesses who have the ability to do that, but just between us. I have a consciousness who says he has the ability to go between me and his actor. I believe him, I’m just curious if this has happened with anybody else.

Yes, I believe this. It used to happen with me and my best friend back in the day, though our headspaces are more closed off…

I’m scared, I have a head mate that is fictional and that’s never happened to me, usually the voices in my head are just different variations of my own voice, I don’t want to scare him off but it also concerns me a bit since this is all new to me. He stopped my other voices from fighting randomly and it caught me off guard, but I’m grateful for what he did. Any advice for making new head mates feel welcome?

Hey there! First of all, no need to be scared/freaked out. It sounds like this headmate is here for your benefit, and you’re not in…

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From what I understand crawl-ins are when they come before or during birth? So they’ve been here the whole time but they still aren’t the original soul and are continuing a life from elsewhere. (like I was sent here as punishment by one of my world’s “Gods” because I pissed another God off, but no one had a chance to live in this body first because the body was born super premature and that soul didn’t survive)

Fascinating! I’m interested that I’ve never head of that one before, because it actually is a really useful word!

Do walk-ins and crawl-ins not exist? Like if someone says they were born somewhere else and ended up here like a headmate would but have replaced the original soul from the body? (Kinda like a changeling from fae lore?)

Assuming you mean in reaction to this: http://fromfiction.tumblr.com/post/140121020412/how-may-i-tell-i-am-a-fictive-if-i-turn-out-not Absolutely walk-ins exist (never heard of crawl ins? Whats the difference?). I say ‘almost no possibility’ when I really…

anon who sent the ask about soulbonding being different b/c fronting: If that’s the case, then what do you consider the difference between soulbonding and being multiple? Because to me this seems like a case of “well whichever word you want to use that one’s right!” with your definition and that really makes me uncomfortable.

Soulbonding and non-DID multiplicity in general have a lot of potential crossover. Here are the things that tend to make soulbonding ‘different’. All of these are…

In my experience through the soulbonding community – one of the major difference between soulbonds and headmates is the lack of ability to front or to front alone without the “host”. Just because you don’t have DID and/or have fictives doesn’t mean your multiplicity experience is automatically soulbonding.

This CAN be a decent indicator, but its not always the case. Soulbonding covers a much wider spectrum of communication than other multiplicty experiences generally…