Is it possible to “steal” someone’s soulbonds, or to interact with them against the soulbonder’s will or without their knowledge? If someone I don’t know or don’t like tells me that they’ve been talking to my soulbonds, should I believe them?

If someone I don’t know or don’t like tells me that they’ve been talking to my soulbonds, should I believe them?

If someone you don’t know or don’t like tells you they’ve been interacting with your soulbonds this is a HUGE RED FLAG, anon. This is the biggest indicator that manipulative, abusive behavior is on the horizon, and indeed, has already started.

Do NOT maintain contact with anyone who claims to be interacting with YOUR soulbonds against your will or without your knowledge. 

My advice, from personal experience, and from cases where this happened to other bonders is that you cut contact with this person immediately, and warn anyone else you believe may be in danger from them.

Note for kin: the same thing goes if someone claims to know more about your personal kintypes and kin experience than you do.