I get asked a lot about soulbonding, so here’s a link to some interesting articles on the subject, written circa 2002. http://www.karitas.net/pavilion/library/library_sb.html Here are some…
I’ll tell you how I feel. As I’ve said before, its complete and utter bullshit. Being kin does not give you the right to tell…
‘Kin’ is not a word for system member, fictive, soulbond, alter, or headmate. If you say your ‘kin’ or ‘kins’ to mean separate people from…
It is absolutely possible to soulbond without knowing it, and in fact its very normal and natural for many people it occurs to. For me,…
Yes, it absolutely is. I’ve had characters just sort of leap into my mind immediately upon encountering them.
There’s absolutely no ‘rule’ for this, its entirely up to what you and your bonds feel comfortable with. As long as you and they are…
One interesting thing about being kin is a lot of us have experiences that are vaguely related to being kin, but decidedly outside of the…
It depends on the bond. Honestly, sometimes they’re just not a match, and they’ll never answer. However, the usual time for me it takes to…
Mostly, soulbonds come and go basically as they please, to an extent. if you’re really not getting along with a soulbond though, the best idea…
I definitely think its a good idea to to that! In fact its part of my guide on soulbonding. http://fictionkin.net/soulbonding/soulbonding-for-beginners/
I won’t take a stance on whether alters can be fictionkin, as alters are specifically DID related and not something I am qualified to discuss.…
I’m so glad that my posts could help! Good luck to you and your bond ^^
Good question! To start with, a fictive is specifically a headmate or alter. They are a member of a multiple collective or system. As for…
This is totally normal for a lot of multiples, especially natural multiples who aren’t cause by trauma and may not experience dissociation. My headmates and…
Most tulpamancers Ive known are cool with the term soulbond. However, if you feel self conscious, you can use whatever term you like!
If everyone in your headspace is a soulbond, maybe median soulbonder is the right term for you? Or median collective. Mental spectrum?
Lately several DID sufferers have expressed the view that natural multiples using the term ’system’ to describe themselves is in some way appropriative or dismissive…
Fictives are walk-ins. Fictives appear in an already living body in this world fully aware and conscious of their identity as a certain character. There…
No, soulbonders can be singlets too. There are both multiple and singlet ways to interact with soulbonds.
I’m a pretty popular fictionkin blogger, yes, but not so much a popular multiple blogger. I almost never talk about my experiences as a multiple,…
Because I am a member of a multiple system that is non-trauma based and doesn’t experience significant dissociation? I don’t know what other proof you…
Because you’re just wrong.
No, you have to have extreme dissociation symptoms in order to be diagnosed DID. That’s not the same thing. DID is the medical term for…
And you are not listening to me. I am a part of a multiple system. We do not have DID or trauma. Why are you…
The point is over here <- and you are all the waaaaay over there —–> In other words, you have missed the point. how on…
The trauma based model pushed by the psychological institution is not the only cause of multiplicity. Non-trauma systems exist, and have existed for years, and…
That’s false. Non-disordered multiplicity a) exists, and has been recognized for some time b) in no way trivializes the problems of disordered multiples. That’s like…
(2/2 – IIR) The first question being, how can I tell if it’s really real or I’m just making this up? The sort of answer…
Question for psychological fictionkin/kin who believe their identity is only due to their mental state: What are your feelings and beliefs regarding spiritual kin, /…
To be fictionkin you have to believe that fictional characters literally exist in some way.
‘Kin’ is not a word for system member, fictive, soulbond, alter, or headmate. If you say your ‘kin’ or ‘kins’ to mean separate people from yourself…
There is nothing wrong with roleplay. Roleplay is a medium through which many people create or call fictives, find out that they are multiple, or…
Don’t let anyone discourage you for having a synpath. There is nothing inherently offensive about synpaths. The term was invented to distinguish fictionkin (people who…
What frustrates me is that whenever I make a post that contains an absolute such as “kin are never X” “fictives are always Y”: then I…
What frustrates me is that whenever I make a post that contains an absolute such as “kin are never X” “fictives are always Y”: then I…
fictionkin usages: correct usage I am fictionkin I love being fictionkin I am kin of I am fictionkin of My kinself is My kintype is…
Soulbonds are a type of fictive. They existed or continue to exist in a world/universe/realm other than our earth, and have come through magical means…