I have a weird question about soulbonds. I have experienced ‘cloning’ of headmates several times. The clones always have the memories of their ‘real’ selves, but they are exact copies. Are these valid? and if they are valid, are they soulbonds, tulpas or fictives? ( bonus: they are copies of someone else’s headmates. is that a thing? )

Yes, that’s possible, though its really up to you whether you consider them bonds or tulpas. As an aside, unless the other person whose headmates…

Do you have any advice on possible plurality? I was thinking I might have an accidental Tulpa, but I really don’t know. I had made a persona for use, but she evolved much past what I intended and I feel like I’m not making design decisions, but reflecting what is proper now. I feel her in my mind, not vocally but almost as a separate being? I’m not really sure what to do on this honestly.

My best advice would be to research plurality/multipicity, both on this blog, other tumblrs, and off tumblr, and see how you feel about it and…

so, i’ve noticed a trend among a lot of kin, from fictives to otherkin… and that’s what they call ‘linking’. It’s basically where the one ‘fronting’ ‘links’ to other headspaces using roleplay-like dialogue and they can apparently interact this way in ‘real time’ as if they were real. is this, even a thing? can this even be real? or is it just roleplay? lol

Some people do claim to be able to communicate with members of other people’s headspaces either at a distance, or by the members ‘visiting’ the headspace…

I personally believe that as a universe is written or created it comes into existence, and that time is fluid and non-linear and so all universes are always happening in the past, future and present all the same. This is why I have a hard time thinking my “kinself” is any different from me now, because I exist in the past, present and future. AUs and stuff are the same, in that they become a separate world with existing framework, just different. Just offering someone else’s take on it. :3

Great perspective, anon! Very interesting.

About the sans Fictive: It is, and it’s not even my Fictive. But I’m pretty sure this Sans doesn’t have a home now. He didn’t actually belong in that AU to start with, but it was his home, and the love of his life was there… How can someone think that’s ok to do though?

Unless the AU was created/destroyed by a soulbonder/tulpamancer/someone else deliberately using that AU to call/create fictives from it, then they don’t have any moral obligation…

So I think I might have been wrong about one of my kintypes because I really didn’t put a lot of thought into it now that I look back, and also I really *wanted* to be them, so I think I may have convinced myself I was them in a past life. I just… I hate admitting I could be wrong about this, especially because they were my first kintype and made me recognize another. Do you have any advice on dealing with this? Thanks.

Its hard to admit one is wrong, anon. I’ve been there, honestly. When I was younger there was this character that I really *wanted* to…

So lately a realized something weird – and by lately I mean since December or so. I often feel ‘disconnected’ with my body and the first thing that comes into my mind is Chara. I kinda feel like at that exact moment I’m them – I can feel what they do, have their memories, ‘feel’ their relationships with others. And it’s not only at these moments – I always feel these things, but not as strong as then. I’m not sure if I’m kin with them, but if I am… I’m kinda scared of that. (cont.)

(Chara kin cont.) I’m not scared of being kin – not at all – it’s the character. The whole Undertale fandom sees Chara as the…

Feeling like you’re missing abilities is a part of being kin right? Because I’m questioning being kin with a character who is a telepath. Throughout my whole life, even when I was little, I’ve thought it was extremely weird that I wasn’t able to hear other people’s thoughts. I felt like I was missing a part of my life that was very important. Same with telekinesis, I’ve been obsessed for awhile and always thought I needed it (the character has it). Is this a kin experience?

Feeling like you’re missing abilities, like telekinesis/telepathy can definitely be considered a kin experience.