Kind of funny how I get two ‘dating/life advice’ type asks in a row! For future refrence even though its not really the ‘point’ of this blog,…

I’m not usually one to seek to people on the Internet for help but I’m so desperate and I really enjoy following your blog so I thought you might be able to help. I’m in high school and my bf has a different group of friends and I can’t push myself to speak up and talk to them or sit with them half the times story dislike it for me. Another boy in his friend group has a gf whom they all love and I really don’t know how to push myself to make them like me? Please help

Hi there, anon! 🙂 I’m sorry you’ve been having social trouble like this. Highschool is hard, because people are forced to socialize with one another…

I recently started crawling into the skin of a canon character that I roleplay, but in my normal life. I’ve realized how comfortable it is for me, and that I’ve done this all my life, just haven’t had anyone support it since I was a child. I have feelings from him needing contact with his friends (provided by some of my friends), and feel wonderful when people call me his name. But I’m not sure I’m kin. I feel more like this character came out of me, rather than me coming from them. (1 of 2)

(2/2) He developed from my interest in him, he hasn’t necessarily been there all my life in his current form. But I also did not…

So, recently went through an awakening period (thank you for your help with that, again) and have been settling in and acclimating to being Demonkin. That said, after talking to those closest to me, I’ve been informed that apparently my general vocal pattern has changed. Like, general vocabulary choice, tonal inflection, patter, and even standard speaking pitch. Is that a common occurrence? I’m very new to this, and I wondering if others experience this phenomenon. Thank you!

Its possible that since you’ve awakened you’re going through a heavy shift, where you’re simply MORE your demon self than usual. Its also possible you’re…

In terms of spiritual otherkin, do some know what order their past lives were in? Most tell me my angel past life has to have been the most recent, and I’m wondering if they’re right? I mean, personally it isn’t the strongest feeling I have but they seem to think you have to have had been an angel in the most recent past life. Thoughts?

Yes, some people know, or suspect what order their lives occured in. I have a strong feeling that for me it was Vriska > Ken…

Is it possible to feel like you have ‘phantom powers’. Like Scarlet Witch, she can see her powers and play around with them using her hands without using them. Is it possible to have a phantom sensation of that? Not actual powers of course, as you can’t physically shift, but ‘feeling’ as if they were there.

Absolutely, anon. That is actually a great way to describe that sensation, thank you! Its something I experience pretty heavily and haven’t really had a…

vagabondwyrm: What exactly is “divinity”? Is there (rhetorically speaking) a quantifiable value that makes something “divine” or a “deity”? Or is it simply an abstract concept attributed to…

Sometimes I wish some kin people would be more open to talking to people who don’t really have anything to do with their canon, like in my canon I lost half my family and I wish I could talk to, maybe, Steven Universe about our mothers or just cause he’s a nice guy and in canon we’re about the same age. Or even Bucky Barnes, because I feel like he’s what my brother would be like if he’d gotten the chance to grow up. And it’s really hard to find people from my own media, let alone my own canon,

What amuses me is that there’s teenagers out there who think otherkin, soulbonding, and fictionkin is a “new” thing that started on tumblr.. I’m pretty sure I’ve been doing this longer than some of them have been alive (the teenagers anyway I can’t see a grown ass adult wasting their time arguing about this), and there’s people around-although not active on this site. Who’ve been at it longer than I’ve been alive.

Its a shame that its so hard to impart a sense of history through this medium. I feel like a lot of people would feel…

I honestly don’t know how you put up with the annoying teenagers who don’t believe in otherkin (and sometime non binary genders), so I’d like to congratulate you for somehow managing to stay on here to help other people. You’re probably the best fictionkin blog I know, and your soulbonder one is the only one I’ve seen on the site.

Thank you, anon, I really appreciate the praise. Tumblr’s honestly the most hostile environment I’ve ever hosted a blog, which is sad, because its also…

I’m struggling with my mindset right now. Everything is chaotic. Before in my life I’d get the occasional flash, a feeling… but now its all the time. I feel wings ever moment of every day, the weight of them causing knots of tension in my back and shoulders that others can feel. I remember things, so clearly, all in a rush like years of forgotten life. I’m struggling to handle so many memories. You were the first blog I found that talked about it. Can you help me understand? I’m freaking out.

Anon, it sounds like you’re going through a very difficult, troubling time. The kin community would probably call what you’re going through an Awakening period,…

who-is-page: fromlylat: who-is-page: Anti-otherkin remind me of those really aggressive Christians that will absolutely hound people of different faiths than them (especially atheists, from what…

Can you help me convince myself I’m not kin? I don’t think I am but a part of me still wants to hold onto the belief and search for feelings I’m not sure are there. I haven’t felt most of the “common kin feelings” that you list. Plus I’m worried that I wouldn’t be able to keep it a secret.

I donno, anon, I’m not big on repressing feelings, especially if they keep popping up. However, just wanting to be kin (searching for feelings that…

Ok so I’m very new to the whole fictionkin thing and I’m not sure if they would be considered my kin. I’ve never really shared memories but I have a very strong connection to them, like i see them and I feel like they are me. I’m just really confused and was hoping you could help

Unfortunately you’re the only one who can say for sure whether you’re kin or not. There posts should help you: http://fictionkin.net/fictionkin/how-to-find-your-kintype/ http://fictionkin.net/fictionkin/what-kin-experience-what-makes-people-kin/

youredoingkinwrong: Sometimes I feel like my canon events as Luke were “too mushy” and seem fake because like, after the OT, pretty much nothing catastrophically bad…