For me, i have primary (kintypes i am currently shifting into pretty often), secondary (kintypes i still feel strongly but i’m not experiencing shifts at the moment), and tertiary (kintypes that i still feel but i haven’t had a shift in a while). Then I have synpaths/hearttypes and a questioning list as well. -Organization anon

Very interesting! It makes me wonder how often do you have to update your lists? I’m so lazy I haven’t even updated m soulbond list…

i guess the main thing is that it kind of hurts, here i am thinking that i’ve found a really good and informative blog about something that plays a pretty big role in my life, basically giving the vibe that because i have tiers of kintypes, that i’m less valid than those who dont. and man, it is really disappointing

I never said you were less valid. Also, I despise ‘validity’ as a concept. The original question I was asked was ‘ When looking at someone’s…

in a sense, it is. though there’s also, for me, levels of how connected i feel to the kintype. like facts are facts and i know that im kin with specific characters because i have the memories.. but sometimes i dont want to be or i dont feel like i’ve retained much of my old selves/self whatever (grammer is confusing) in this life. it’s really hard to explain because not everyone who has kintypes will feel this way but for some of us, not all kintypes are equal, and we are valid

And that’s a fair way to feel, anon, and a fair way to categorize things for yourself. Like I said, I don’t actually have anything…

as someone who has “primary/secondary” kintypes, for me it’s like… sometimes i’m not sure if i’m kin with a character or not. or sometimes i have less memories and it makes me unsure. this is what define primary/secondary for me: how close i am to figuring out beyond any sort of doubt whether or not i am kin with a character

This makes sense to me but tells me that only your primary kintypes are your actual confirmed kintypes and everything else is just things that…