Just a reminder that I personally don’t believe authors create (or destroy) the universes they write about. I believe that all possible universes are already…

About the sans Fictive: It is, and it’s not even my Fictive. But I’m pretty sure this Sans doesn’t have a home now. He didn’t actually belong in that AU to start with, but it was his home, and the love of his life was there… How can someone think that’s ok to do though?

Unless the AU was created/destroyed by a soulbonder/tulpamancer/someone else deliberately using that AU to call/create fictives from it, then they don’t have any moral obligation…

So I think I might have been wrong about one of my kintypes because I really didn’t put a lot of thought into it now that I look back, and also I really *wanted* to be them, so I think I may have convinced myself I was them in a past life. I just… I hate admitting I could be wrong about this, especially because they were my first kintype and made me recognize another. Do you have any advice on dealing with this? Thanks.

Its hard to admit one is wrong, anon. I’ve been there, honestly. When I was younger there was this character that I really *wanted* to…

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tall-dark-and-scaly: – It’s okay to realize that you aren’t actually kin with what you thought you were kin with. – It’s okay to change your…

ndmercy replied to your post “Once again” this is what prevented me from finding out i’m a median system for a looong time. I could…

So lately a realized something weird – and by lately I mean since December or so. I often feel ‘disconnected’ with my body and the first thing that comes into my mind is Chara. I kinda feel like at that exact moment I’m them – I can feel what they do, have their memories, ‘feel’ their relationships with others. And it’s not only at these moments – I always feel these things, but not as strong as then. I’m not sure if I’m kin with them, but if I am… I’m kinda scared of that. (cont.)

(Chara kin cont.) I’m not scared of being kin – not at all – it’s the character. The whole Undertale fandom sees Chara as the…

Feeling like you’re missing abilities is a part of being kin right? Because I’m questioning being kin with a character who is a telepath. Throughout my whole life, even when I was little, I’ve thought it was extremely weird that I wasn’t able to hear other people’s thoughts. I felt like I was missing a part of my life that was very important. Same with telekinesis, I’ve been obsessed for awhile and always thought I needed it (the character has it). Is this a kin experience?

Feeling like you’re missing abilities, like telekinesis/telepathy can definitely be considered a kin experience.

I don’t know how to identify my system. While on one hand I am not diagnosed with DID and OSDD, I can’t deny the existence of my bonds. I labeled myself as a bond system in order to stress that I was not DID, and I was attacked for it and told I wasn’t allowed to use the word system because I wasn’t DID, even though my bonds came about as a result of years of emotional and verbal ab*se. I don’t know what to do, and it seems I am caught between deny the existence of my bonds and throwing a fit…

Just ignore the people who try to deny you exist and that your experiences are real. A wise anon once told me this: Don’t fall…